Hey there! Are you a vulva-owner? Do you have any questions about what's down there or what it's supposed to look like, feel like, or do? Let's explore it together!

First, thing first: vulvas come of every shapes, size and colour. Check out The Labia Library to see just how many fabulous varieties there are.

The G-spot is famous as a secret pleasure spot, but science isn't sure if it's real or just part of how the clitoris, vagina, and urethra all work together. What's clear? Everyone's body is different, and exploring what feels good is the real key.

Are you curious about what gets your engine running?

When someone with a vulva is aroused (or turned on), their body goes through a series of changes: the blood flow increases, sensitivity goes up, and everything gets ready for pleasure. One big sign of getting hot and bothered is vaginal lubrication, aka natural wetness. It helps reduce friction during play or sex.

Here is the catch, if you are not wet, it doesn't always mean that you are not turned on! Many things like stress, hormones, medications or just a bit of jitters can cause dryness. Don't worry, that's why lube exists 😉.

Ah, the Clitoris… it's called the powerhouse of pleasure, and for a good reason! Did you know it has over 8000 nerve endings? It is designed only for pleasure, not other functions.

The little hood that covers the pea-size glans on top of your urethra and vaginal opening is just the tip of the iceberg.

Everyone's body is different, but here are a few ways people with vulvas might experience orgasm:

Female Genital Mutilation (FGM) is when parts of the female genitals are cut, removed, or altered for cultural, religious, or other non-medical reasons. It's a practice that happens in some countries, often to girls before age 15.

According to the World Health Organization (WHO), over 230 million women and girls worldwide have gone through FGM, and millions more are at risk every year.

Have you or someone you know experienced FGM?

Main Parts: external (penis and testes) and internal (prostate gland and urethra).

Penis

What is the penis?

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Male organs for urination and sexual intercourse.

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It has spongy tissue inside that fills with blood when you are sexually aroused, making the penis hard. This is called an erection.

Part of the penis

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Shaft: the main long part.

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Glans (also called head): the round tip and where pee and semen (fluid with sperm) come out.

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Foreskin: a fold of skin that covers the head in and remains in men people who are uncircumcised.

What is Circumcision?

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Circumcision is a medical procedure that involves the surgical removal of the foreskin when the foreskin is surgically removed.

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Circumcision often depends on family belief, country, religious, and cultural traditions. The global rate of circumcision is 33%. It's most common in the U.S., the Middle East, and South Korea, and less common in Europe, other parts of Asia, and South America. It's also a religious practice for Jewish and Muslim people.

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Some people are circumcised as babies, other later (e.g., for cultural or medical reasons).

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Both circumcised (cut) and uncircumcised (uncut) penises are normal and work the same.

Some benefits of circumcision includes lowering the risk of

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Foreskin-specific conditions, including phimosis (Phimosis: a condition in which it is not possible to pull the foreskin back over the glans. Phimosis can cause pain during erection and sexual intercourse, infections, and bleeding. If you think you have phimosis, it's a good idea to see a doctor. Steroid cream or circumcision are the ways for treating phimosis.), paraphimosis (inability to pull the foreskin down over the head of the penis), balanitis (inflammation of the foreskin and glans), and infection.

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Urinary tract infections.

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Penile cancer.

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Some STIs.

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Cervical cancer for female sexual partners.

Circumcision is generally a safe operation, however similar to all surgeries, it does carry some risks including bleeding at the surgical site, infection, pain, and complications from any anaesthesia or medicines used during or after the procedure.

Several major medical associations including the American Urological Association (AUA) and the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommend offering circumcision as a choice for parents, however, it's ultimately the parents' decision.

There is no proof that circumcision decrease sensitivity or affect fertility.

Also according to a systematic review conducted in 2013, “medical male circumcision has no adverse effect on sexual function, sensitivity, sexual sensation, or satisfaction” (Morris & Krieger, 2013).

If the penis is not circumcised (uncircumcised)?

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It's totally okay.

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Uncircumcised people should gently pull back and wash under the foreskin regularly to keep clean.

If it's difficult to pull back foreskin, red, swollen, inflamed or having lumps, it's a good idea to see a doctor. According to Melbourne Urology Centre, those with phimosis, paraphimosis, and/or recurrent balanitis might be suitable for circumcision. It is recommended to see a doctor.

Is my penis normal?

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Some factors affecting the penis size includes temperature (cold temperature can sometimes make the penis shrink), genes, and hormones.

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Penises come in many shapes and sizes and that's normal.

Average sizes:

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Soft (flaccid): 5~10 cm (2~4 in).

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Hard (erect): 12~14 cm (5~5.5 in).

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Some are longer, shorter, thicker, or thinner.

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Penis can be straight or a little curved. However, if it bends a lot and causes pain or makes sex difficult, it might be Peyronie's disease. In this case, talk to a doctor.

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Penis can be darker or lighter than other parts of your skin regardless of your race.

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Most penises are not perfectly smooth. Vein may be visible when you are sexually aroused. Hair follicles (tiny bumps where hair grows on the shaft) is also normal.

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Unless it hurts, has a lump, or you notice a big change, it's likely totally normal.

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When it comes to sex, the penis size doesn't really matter.

Don't compare your body to porn - it's often unrealistic.

Don't compare your body to porn - it's often unrealistic.

There is no safe method that exists to increase penis size.

There is no safe method that exists to increase penis size. Pills, creams, or pumps don't work. Surgery is risky and usually not very helpful. The most important thing is being comfortable with your body and communicating with your partner.

Testes and Scrotum

Epididymis

Infertility

Difficulty urinating

Impotence or Erectile Dysfunction (ED)

Cancers

Low sex drive/loss of male libido

People who are intersex do not have typical male or female genitalia, reproductive organs or chromosome patterns, sexual characteristics or sex hormone levels. While it is not super common, it is completely natural!

The word 'intersex' describes a whole range of people that differ in sexual characteristics, with over 30 known intersex variations!

Sex chromosome intersex:

Internal genitalia matches the external genitalia (those with a vulva have uterus and fallopian tubes, and those with a penis have scrotum and testes) but chromosomes may vary and affect sex hormone levels and sexual development. Example: Lucy has a vulva, uterus and fallopian tubes but does not have 46 XX chromosomes females do.

While some people can be identified as intersex at birth, some don't discover their differences until puberty or adulthood. In fact, if there are no physical signs or symptoms, you may be intersex without evening knowing it!

With all these variations, there is no one intersex experience! Some, but not all, intersex people may have periods, be fertile or experience erections.

Intersex people are proof that sex and gender are not the same thing! Someone's chromosomes and appearance might not match their outward gender presentation and that's ok!

Some intersex people may have or develop medical issues (eg. hormonal issues) so it's important to visit a doctor if you believe you may be intersex.

About 1.7% of people are born intersex.